i am inbetween shy and conservative and outgoing and willing to talk to people...it changes with my mooos, at times i am out going and can make a *** out of myself and what not but most the time like out in public im kinda shy. i want to be able to just start convos with random people and be outgoing how do i brake out of my shell?How do you change your personality?alcohol....and lots of itHow do you change your personality?work on getting self-worth, then nothing can stop you, good luck....How do you change your personality?Counseling?
I dunno lollll.How do you change your personality?Wow, you sound like Sybil (the movie) which one are you really? Try being yourself and not adjusting your personality for your surroundings.How do you change your personality?Always look straght ahead and smile.think positive and think about some thing funny .I am the same way you are it took me thirty yrs to be able to start up random convos now it easy.How do you change your personality?Just be yourself around people and when they start to accept you as a friend, then that is your chance to come out of your shell. You just have to have confidence and allow your friends to support you so you can gain more confidence. It just takes time for something like that to happen. You can't expect to take some kind of pill and suddenly you are outgoing...How do you change your personality?just start out by sayig hello to complete strangers as you pass by or while standing in line or on an elevator, then once you are comfortable doing that try farting on crowded elevators and pointing at the guy or girl standing next to you.How do you change your personality?Involve yourself in community activities with people that you know. School/band/sports picnics? [Safe] parties? Eventually you will become comfortable with these sorts of activities that require you to be more open-minded and outgoing. Also, gather with a bunch of friends; this way you are starting smaller, becoming more comfortable with smaller groups, leading into a big group which will allow you to be more willing to talk to new people. I'm the same way, but I like that sometimes I'm shy and sometimes I'm not. It allows me to be more independent which I like. gOoD lUcK!!!How do you change your personality?gradually.
First, start with something small, like if you have an annoying conversational habit. Find what it is, and stop doing it. Be conscious of everything you do, and change the one thing. When you've done that, you will have found that you are more aware of other traits in your personality that need to be solved.
If you lie a lot then maybe tell the truth where you would normally lie. If you want to improve shyness, find a place you are comfortable, and start talking to people you would not normally talk to.
Smile, and shake people's hands. Don't start conversations by talking about yourself, talk about the other person.
Don't do anything that would embarass the other person, compliment their clothing, something about them, without sounding desperate. Don't say %26quot;You're georgeous%26quot; say %26quot;You look friendly.%26quot; That is a compliment without anyone thinking you are trying to be more than a friendly person.How do you change your personality?Well, as much as I'm sure you want to hear %26quot;Just do xxxxxx and everything will change%26quot; it's unfortunately not that simple.
What you should do is continue to make an effort to be outgoing. Realize that most of the people in the world aren't going to stare at you awkwardly if you walk up to them and say hi. After all, I'm sure even as shy as you are, you'd still say hello to someone saying hi to you.
Basically you need to realize that most people enjoy talking to other people. Some people are outgoing and can start up the conversations, and others are shy like yourself and will only speak when spoken to. Either one of those types will still respond to your attempts to talk to them though.
And as cliche as it sounds, the weather really is a good conversation topic when you have nothing else to talk about.
So just go for it and give it a shot, the more you do it, the more natural it will feel.How do you change your personality?You cannot change your personality. You can only change your behaviour to that which is consistent with the personality you'd like to have. Start young enough, do it long enough, and it might just rub off on you.How do you change your personality?Yeah i had a friend like that and i she still is but she is much better before i last met her,
anyways, when you meet new people. Don't act different. Dont be someone you are not. People should like you for who you are, not what you are pretending to be. that makes a lot of sense. If you want to talk casual though, don't get nervous. Just take a deep breath and relax. Talk like how you would talk to your friends. When they say hi, say hi back and tell them your name and ask for theirs. soon you will see that you guys will have a conversation starting up and you won't feel so nervous anymore.
how do you break out of your little shell? well, you could first start off just being by yourself for a bit. and think of what you would do if you are meeting someone. If you were being introduced to someone, what would you start off saying. you don't want to babble, so sorta plan the beginning part. The hi, whats up, anything new thing. Sometimes i plan little topics in my head of what to talk about before i talk to someone im not so used too so then i don't feel awkward talking to them or start shooting out words that don't make sense and all that kind of stuff.
When actually talking to someone, like i said, deep breath. Relax. No stress. The person is like everybody else. Talk to them like how you would talk to your friends. Be YOURSELF. dont lie about anything about you. you will just get tangled up in a mess. sometimes, if i get nervous just starting up the convo like if it is already started and i feel nervous or about to babble, i just excuse myself to the bathroom or something, and then when i get to the bathroom, i just relax for a bit. Think of some quick topics and all that kind of thigns. Or getting a drink of water would help too. just ask if you could go get something real quick. And when oyu come back, just remember to stay calm and you will be fine.
well good luck!How do you change your personality?you shouldnt have to but if you were going to you might want to change your aditude and the way way you handle situations like instead of being happy be sad.....see you really dont want to changeHow do you change your personality?It's complicated, and takes a degree of self-esteem and determination to change your personality.
You want to come out of your shell and be able to strike up conversations... start by talking to yourself in the mirror. Have imaginary conversations - ones you'd like to have with people. Talk them all out until you have a good idea of how to answer certain questions, how to respond to things like %26quot;how are you?%26quot; and stuff like that. I used to laugh when people said to talk to the mirror, but it really worked for me. It builds confidence, because you know what you look like when you say things, you've seen your expressions, and you can be confident in your speech.
Next, you should sit down and think of ways to start conversations - write them down, and then try them out in front of the mirror.
The test is actually walking up to someone and talking to them. If you're in a large setting with a lot of people, look for people either alone or with one or two friends.. I've had really bad luck with joining a group conversation. They just kinda look at you all funny like %26quot;WHO are you, and why are you talking to us?%26quot;
Pick a neutral topic, like the weather or food. If you're in a cafeteria, make some obscure recommendation like %26quot;the pie's good%26quot; or %26quot;Oh, I love those cookies.. you should try one.%26quot; Then if the comment sticks and you start talking, you can introduce yourself.
The important thing is to relax and be confident. Take a deep breath before you start, and tell yourself that the worst that can happen is they'll tell you to go away.. and that it's their loss if they do.
Good Luck
